十九、红药丸九铁则

1.框架就是一切,永远意识到目前你正在掌控的框架平衡。永远掌控这框架,但并不要弄得自己象是个操控狂。(Frameiseverything.Alwaysbeawareofthesubconsciousbalanceofwhoseframeinwhichyouareoperating.AlwayscontroltheFrame,butresistgivingtheimpressionthatyouare.)2.永远不要诚实或是不诚实地跟你的现任伴侣揭露你过去和几个女人上床或是你的性爱细节。(NEVER,underpainofdeath,honestlyordishonestlyrevealthenumberofwomenyou'vesleptwithorexplainanydetailofyoursexualexperienceswiththemtoacurrentlover.)3.任何女人如果刻意地让你等待性爱,或是她透过行动让你等待性爱,那麽这性爱就不值得你等。(Anywomanwhomakesyouwaitforsex,orbyheractionsimpliessheismakingyouwaitforsex;thesexisNEVERworththewait.)4.在任何情况下都不要跟还没跟你结婚的女人同居,或是你们在未来六个月都还没规划要结婚的女人同居。(NEVERunderanycircumstancelivewithawomanyouaren'tmarriedtoorarenotplanningtomarryinwithin6months.)5.永远不要让女人控制生育。(NEVERallowawomantobeincontrolofthebirth.)6.女人没有办法用男人期待女人爱男人的方式,来爱男人。

(Womenareutterlyincapableoflovingamaninthewaythatamanexpectstobeloved.)7.如果关系破裂,开发新欢永远比拯救弥补破裂的旧爱好。(Itisalwaystimeandeffortbetterspentdevelopingnew,fresh,prospectivewomenthanitwilleverbeinattemptingtoreconstructafailedrelationship.)8.永远让女人去思索为什麽她不跟你打炮,你绝对不要去帮她思索这件事情。(Alwaysletawomanfigureoutwhyshewontfuxkyou,neverdoitforher.)9.在任何情形下面都不要自我矮化。(NeverSelf-Deprecateunderanycircumstance.)