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首页| 【夜听】我若离去,谁会心疼？ 听 夜听陪你晚安 6月6日 我若离去,谁会心疼？ 来自夜听陪你晚安 00:0006:59 歌曲：一个人的风景 请点击上方绿色图标收听 人活着有多累, 只有自己能体会。 留不住的是时间, 忙不完的是琐事。 有时也曾想不顾一切, 从疲惫的生活里出逃。 但抛不开的是责任, 甩不掉的是烦恼。 却同时也很想知道： “我若离去,谁会心疼？” 别人只关心你, 飞得高不高, 却没人关心你, 飞得累不累。 别人只会夸你, 坚强懂事脾气好, 却没人知道你, 一直在委屈里煎熬。 宁可自己多受点累, 也不忍心让家人吃苦。 宁可自己咬牙硬撑, 也不愿开口要求帮忙。 但人一旦习惯了你的付出, 就对你的好满不在乎。 Education rejuvenates the country, or science and technology rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country with talented people and so on, but all cannot do without education. Obviously, how important education is in a country's construction and rejuvenation is absolutely a universal truth. However, what is China's education like? I am not an expert or scholar. Of course, the purpose of this article is not to discuss the whole picture of education. I just want to make a small comparison between Chinese and western education and look for the clue of rejuvenating the country. There are many characteristics and differences between Chinese and western education, of course, there are also some similarities or differences, because education, after all, starts with children and must have some commonalities. However, the differences between Chinese and western education are still major. Perhaps the most striking one is: China's education attaches importance to rationality and even propriety, while western education attaches importance to individuality and even to nature, so the gap arises. I describe it as " goat sex education" for Chinese education, and " wolf sex education" for western education ( wolf sex culture seems to be very fashionable in enterprise construction in recent years ). Although this analogy is not appropriate and I do not appreciate it, let's use it as a vivid bridge to understand the problem. Because of the characteristics of sheep and wolf, the relationship between sheep and wolf is too simple and clear, so there is no need to say more. Just think about the story of Wolf and Lamb, which has been deeply rooted in people's hearts since childhood. Why is it said that Chinese education is like " sheep's nature" because the Chinese people have been deeply educated, nurtured and influenced by traditional Confucian culture since childhood. They speak of benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith, cultivate one's morality and nurture one's nature, and even go along with it. It is impossible to talk about how to win the hearts of the people or even how to rule the people without human nature education or resistance education. Therefore, no matter how many people there are, most of them have become good citizens, obedient citizens and even slaves. Looking at the classic works inherited from China, one can see at a glance: Tao Te Ching, Analects of Confucius, Book of Changes, University, Doctrine of the Mean, Zeng Guofan's Family Letters and so on, all of which are basically poems, books, rites and music, and dealing with people. One can see this by thinking about the worship of " rare stupidity" which is regarded as a motto by many people in China. Although many scholars and even high-ranking officials and elites regard it as if it were a fool, there are few people who can really be a fool. I'm afraid most of them have really wasted their lives in a muddle. ( Article Reading Network: www.sanwen.net ) However, western education seems to be " wolf - like" because it emphasizes more on individuality, subjectivity, resistance consciousness, master consciousness, autonomy and even aggressiveness, which is completely opposite to China. Therefore, western countries have a rich history of aggression, while eastern countries such as China have more history of aggression. Looking at the classics of western classics, one can see at a glance: utopia, the spirit of law, the origin of species, the theory of human nature, even including the theory of war, my struggle, and so on. of course, there are also the bible, capital, the communist manifesto, and so on, which are quite different from Chinese culture. People who grew up under this kind of " goat sex" education did not see much difference during the civil war. Even sheep became wolves. However, once there is a war with western countries, it will be clear that the problem arises: sheep or sheep, wolf or wolf. How can sheep beat wolves? Even if there are more sheep, they are also the food of wolves. Why are they called lambs to be slaughtered? They are the products of Chinese education. However, sheep will not be sheep forever, or sheep eaten by wolves will not be sheep again after they are regenerated. Having experienced too many war lessons instead of book education, the Chinese have awakened and can neither be wolves nor sheep. If the Chinese want to be dragons, they can be said to be " gods" that no animal can defeat. It is neither as ferocious as a wolf nor as submissive as a sheep. It is free to fly into the sea and is superior to the others. Flying apsaras can soar and swim into the sea, becoming the only " oriental dragon" in the world. Think about it, what would happen if it were 1.4 billion sheep and what would happen if it were 14 dragons? However, the strange phenomenon is that education in China is " goat - like", but it is only aimed at children, and educators are often " wolf - like", including children's parents and teachers. are there not some successful education cases of " tiger parents"? However, western education is " wolf - like" and also aimed at children. instead, educators are often " sheep - like", or flexible and equal. even when children are treated, they are treated like adults with equal democracy and respect for human nature and nature. In fact, Chinese education is far from simple " goat sex" education. Starting from " sage Confucius", for more than 2,000 years, Chinese education can be said to be rich and profound, absolutely no worse than western education, and even much higher. All western education concepts are not uncommon in the education system of our ancestors. Otherwise, how can so many " magnificent" national heroes be cultivated, and how can so many " better - than - strolling" outstanding Chinese children be born? It is because our descendants cannot thoroughly study the education methods and ideological essence of our ancestors, and the methods are improper. It can even be said that our education is the result of a serious mistake of " imitating others from the east". We want to learn from the west but have not learned the essence. On the contrary, we have lost our own excellent things. Neither fish nor fowl is often hysterical. We have turned good children into " four different images" of China, the west and the east. This is the biggest failure and the biggest sorrow. Fortunately, many people of insight have gradually come to their senses and are returning to the right path bit by bit. In fact, both Chinese - style education and western-style education have both advantages and disadvantages, with both advantages and disadvantages. The wisest educator should learn from each other's strong points to make up for deficiencies and eliminate disadvantages. Such education is a great blessing for children and a great blessing for the future. This raises a serious question: what is the most important thing in national education and what is the most important thing in master consciousness education, that is, to be a good master instead of waiting to be a slave. Then there is history education ( another article ). If you don't know and remember the history of the motherland, the tragedy will be repeated again and again. Culture, knowledge, science, technology and so on are all important, but no matter what, it is most important to have no sense of ownership, because if one loses the sense of ownership, the country will lose the country and the people will lose the people, which will be the object of insult and damage. Master consciousness is not only manifested in the national economy and people's livelihood, but also on the international stage. Someone once said that China is a lion waking up in the east. I want to say that China is a soaring oriental dragon, flying into the sea and free. History is wealth, please don't regard 5000 years as 70 years old. China is the only country in the world that can and should be able to combine greatness and strength. ????? ??? ???? ????? ?? ?? ????? ??? ????? ?? ?????? ??? ?? ????? ????? ????? ???. ???? ??????? ???? ?????? ???????? ???????? ??? ??? ?? ???????? ????? ??????? ??? ????. ???? ?????? ?? ??? ?? ????? ??? ??????? ????????? ???? ???? ????? ??? ????????. ??????? ???? ?????? ???? ????? ????? ??? ???? ????? ?????????. ??? ?? ??? ????? ???? ???? ???? ?????????? ??? ????? ??????? ???? ?????, ???. ???????? ?????? ???? ????? ?? ??? ????? ????? ?????? ???? ????????? ???? ????? ?? ?????? ?????? ?????? ?? ??? ?????? ???? ??? ????? ????? ?? ?????? ??? ???? ????? ???????? ????? ????????. ??? ???? ?????? ????? ?????? ?? ???????? ???? ?? ????? ????? ??? ???????? ????? ?????? ?????? ??? ?????. ?????? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ?????? ??????. ???? ??? ??? ??????? ???????? ???? ??? ??? ??????? ??????? ?? ?? ???? ?????? ???????. ??? ??? ???? ????? ??????? ?? ????? ?? ?????? ???? ??? ???? ???????. ???? ???????? ???????? ?????? ???? ????? ?? ?? ???? ????? ?????. ????? ?????? ??????? '????? ????'? ???? ??? ?????? ????? ???? ???? ????? ????? ????? ????? ?? ??? ???? ?????. ??? ?? ????? ??? ????? ??????? ????????? ??????? ????? ?????????? ??????? ??? ???????? ???????? ???? ???? ??? ????? ????. ???? ????? ??? ????? ???? ?????? ???? ??? ?????? ??????. That year, I was sitting behind your bicycle with the wind blowing in my ear, detailing your promise to me. I smiled and slept on your shoulder. In early summer, your smile is like tearing sunshine, dazzling and dazzling. In your angelic face, I lost my sight. The gardenia behind me melted your pure white shirt into that piece of Xue Hai. You took off a gardenia and handed it to me. I dare not stretch out my hand to pick it up. You smiled and said, nice to meet you. From now on, I will protect you. Your words and the fragrance of gardenia spread around. I looked up and saw your eyes, bright and warm. At that moment, I felt the fall. From then on, we were inseparable. When it was busy, I watched you laugh and laugh in the crowd and sweat profusely on the court. When it is quiet, you can use a single car to cross the sea of flowers or sit under a tree full of green shade and listen to the flowers. You know what? When you rescued me from that group of people who were carried away by jealousy; When you walked the long mountain road behind my back; When you fetch water for me and give me gifts; When you let me sit behind your bicycle, which will never carry people. These are great happiness that I still cannot believe. One day, I asked you why you knew me at the beginning. You said that when I first saw you, I wanted to protect you. I raised my mouth and smiled proudly. When gardenias bloom again, you sing under the tree with gentle and sad voice. For the first time in your eyes, I saw something other than happiness. I know, your song is for a girl, that's not me. Gardenias were unbridled and defeated behind me. You didn't see the dim look in my eyes. The seasons are dry and the flowers bloom in spring. You are still singing affectionate songs, and I am still the wrong listener. We jointly deduce a story that is not a story. When the last gardenia withered that year, you suddenly asked me what you would do if I left. I said, I will wait for you to come back. You smiled, the smile was full of heavy mist. You put your hand on my head and said, girl, you don't have to wait. I saw the determination in your eyes. I know, everything has been irreparable. Soon after, you left. With your sadness, I went to the place in my dream, the world I will never reach. At the airport, your white shirt still looks good. The black backpack is hung on your shoulder, black and white. With some kind of persistence, I will not die without regret. You smiled again, a sunny smile. Eyes, too deep to see bottom. But I can clearly see that there is a reflection of my face, desolate and beautiful. You said to me with pity and worry, girl, you know, don't wait for me. I shook my head desperately, tears trickling down. You wiped my tears and said, girl, be happy, be happy. This is my last blessing to you, be obedient! Say that finish, you also don't back to go. I heard the sound of my heart being torn apart. The great pain could not be relieved. I cried for a long time and shed tears from now on. You just disappeared from my world, you made all my beautiful dreams break like glass. I am crazy about your news, but no one knows where you went. You came to me in summer and left in summer. Just like the wind, it passed and disappeared. But I can't go back to the origin. I don't remember how many times gardenias opened after you left. I don't know which one you picked for me. I can't do what you say. Without you, how can I be happy? This sea of flowers is still as beautiful as it was at the beginning, only without your smile. And the girl waiting for her lover to return under the tree. 爱笑的人忽然沉默了, 那心一定被伤透了。 执着的人突然放手了, 那爱一定被浇灭了。 我若离去, 谁会满世界找我？ 就像我关心你一样。 我若离去, 谁会发了疯想我？ 后悔没有好好珍惜我。 人只有生病的时候, 才知道谁的手最暖。 也只有转身的时候, 才看清最心疼你的人是谁。 我不是这世上最完美的, 但你再也遇不到第二个我了。 不要等我走了,才说你需要我。 不要等我累了,才想起心疼我。 我若离去,必定后会无期！ 懂得珍惜,才配拥有。 学会用心,才能长久。 点击下方图片即可进入店铺↓↓↓ 夜叔的店往期好物 1.女人一过30岁,这种脸最受偏爱 2.一个人爱不爱你,看眼神就知道 3.湿疹、皮肤病反反复复?用它喷一喷,几块钱就能治好 想听更多我的故事吗? 夜听陪你晚安 请长按二维码"识别"并关注 阅读原文 微信扫一扫 关注该公众号 更多内容vip可查看 |